I agree, if she didn't find the performance to her liking, she should have left. However, I also think he should have pointed that out to her instead of saying, literally, "Hey, wouldn't it be funny if she got, like, raped by 5 guys right now?"
Er, yeah, what dave said.
Have you got a link for that?Actually, from what I read, she made that up. He said something along the lines of "Whoa, it looks like someone got raped by like 5 guys at once..."
Doesn't really excuse it, but it's not quite as harsh.
God I love that meme.
(old meme is old)
Ok, so the heckler's side is:
It might not be ironclad, but it's paraphrased close enough to the truth, by the sounds of it.And the rebuttal is the club owner saying:
"Daniel came in, and he said, 'Well it sounds like she’s been raped by five guys' — something like that. I really didn’t hear properly."
... that's not very ironclad. "something like that, I really didn't hear properly." It sounds more like a club owner trying to do damage control.
On the title: this is news?Spun the Tosh Talk off into its own thread. Let's keep the rant thread all ranty.
Pretty much this.There are literally hundreds of videos where comics go after hecklers. There's even a documentary about hecklers, called (imaginatively enough) Heckler. As someone who has BEEN heckled, you don't always know what to say right away. Oh, you have some shots and know what you'll say in some situations, but not all. In Tosh's case, he was doing misogynistic jokes and was heckled by a woman, so he went way, way, WAY over the top to humiliate her.
So here's my take - as a stand-up - about the whole thing.
Was she in the wrong? Yes. She should have known Tosh's brand of humor before going to the show. She had to buy a ticket and it's not like he's a road comedian nobody has ever heard of. She knew what she was getting into before she went. Also, when you go to a comedy show, SHUT THE FUCK UP! You don't like what you are hearing? Get up and leave. You want to heckle? Fuck you. You are a selfish and immature pissant who deserves to be stepped on, sometimes cruelly and with great malice.
Was Tosh in the wrong? Damn skippy. Like Michael Richards, he tried to take something negative and turn it into a positive, only to go too far around the bend and loop back into "WTF am I listening to" territory. But instead of owning up to it and stopping himself, he doubled down and went for it, which was a bad fucking idea. Tosh's problem is that his humor is ALL centered around shock and racism/sexism and when heckled he doesn't have much room to wiggle out of it because he's already on the edge of bad taste.
So I agree with everyone here for different reasons. I wouldn't have handled it the way he did but I can see why he did. Of course, I don't make rape jokes in the first place so I wouldn't go there even if prodded.
tl;dr: Tosh is an ass. The heckler is an ass. Nobody is surprised at any of it.
Ok, so the heckler's side is:
"After I called out to him, Tosh paused for a moment. Then, he says, 'Wouldn’t it be funny if that girl got raped by like, 5 guys right now? Like right now? What if a bunch of guys just raped her…' and I, completely stunned and finding it hard to process what was happening but knowing I needed to get out of there, immediately nudged my friend, who was also completely stunned, and we high-tailed it out of there. It was humiliating, of course, especially as the audience guffawed in response to Tosh, their eyes following us as we made our way out of there. I didn’t hear the rest of what he said about me."
I dunno, I haven't seen too many stand up comedians, but I loved when they went at hecklers. I thought that was when they tended to be at their funniest.Pretty much this.
I'm huge into the local comedy clubs and go at least once a month to their improv night on Fridays. Every once of a while, the skit bombs.... it happens.... comedians use smaller venues to test out new jokes for their bigger gigs. This is how I knew of some comedians before they hit it big like Russell Peters and Sugar Sammy.
What pisses me off is when pissants start to go "booo" "this sucks!!!" "this subject isn't funny"... it actually angers me and there has been more than once where I went to go see them after the skit and told them a piece of my mind. You don't like it? You and you 10$ can go fuck off. Who the fuck are you to judge someone else. If you don't like it, shut up. Wait for the next skit.
FFS
Hecklers deserves everything they get and more from comedians, they are scum that hide in a crowd of people and ruin it for others because "it's all about them"
Lol Icarus was not who I would have guessed you meant.Nope.
Who wants to tell the special Halforums version of the tale of Icarus?
Wow...Worst heckler I ever had? My wife. She was just yelling things from the crowd and I couldn't really fire back so I introduced her and worked it into my act. It actually went really well and was a good set. People thought we'd planned it but we hadn't. After it was over she and I had a chat. She doesn't do that any more.
Damn hippy.He had every right to make the jokes he did. She had every right to feel the way she did. She had every right to react to his jokes as she did. He had every right to respond to her the way he did. Everyone has every right to feel the way they currently do about the situation.
Freeze Zpeech.
Fuck it. If he was telling rape jokes, then she had every right to heckle him and say that rape is never funny.