I need to sleep tonight...
I always go to bed early, around 9 or 9:30, because I have to get up at 5:45 or so. Jake has been waiting until I get up for a bathroom break to come to bed, because he thinks it will disturb me less. It's actually worse, because I have to try and settle in while he's settling in, and he tosses when he first goes to sleep.
Last night, he came to bed with me at 3 am, and I did not get all the way back to sleep once. I dozed a few times, but that's it. I feel like he thinks he's in "trouble" or something for being up, but he doesn't have to wake up early, so I don't care. I've told him that it's better for him to try and come to bed when I'm already asleep, because I tend not to stir much then. I don't know if he doesn't believe me or what, but he has been waiting until he hears me get up almost every night. So tired...
I think he might benefit from more sleep, anyway. He would sleep all day on weekends if my blender or music didn't wake him. Doesn't that indicate some kind of sleep deficit?