You know, this is funny. Funny in regards to the whole online dating situation and not necessarily your woes! My buddy and I were discussing this exact thing 2 weekends ago.
Let me elaborate. Online dating is generally a clusterfuck and completely in the favor for those who were born with vaginas. As there are easily 20 men to 1 woman ratio on those types of sites, the majority of these online women are about the worst scumbags you can possibly have to deal with. I’ve been on these websites a long way back when I was single and it was an annoying experience to say the least.
You’ll learn and after my post, you’ll understand. Firstly, don’t take it hard that she ignored you, that much was a given, sorry I wasn’t here quickly enough to provide you the support I could have. You see… these women on these websites aren’t human beings. They are hypocritical attention whores who are perusing a catalogue of penises. Simply put, your dick wasn’t appetizing enough and she’s got plenty in reserve.
I mentioned I was chatting with my buddy about this. You see, he’s recently found himself to be single and we discussed how hard it is to find single attractive women online after the age of 30. The odds are that my buddy, a 32 year old average looking single dad of one, to find an attractive normal woman around his age… is quite the feat to beat. Generally, women over the age of 30 are a lot like parking spaces. All the good ones are taken and all that’s left are reserved for the handicapped.
After our conversation, I went online and actually tested the waters simply for the sake to see if things were different. I created 3 accounts. One for a guy like me, with a bit of gusto and white lies to make myself look more interesting, one for an average lookin’ girl with a few brief lines with a picture stolen off facebook and a third profile taken from a good lookin’ girl I found on google images without making her look fake.
I logged back in 2 days later and these were the stats:
The guy had about 15 something views with no messages and virtual gift from a female member that looked like the human equivalent of the Titanic.
The average looking girl had about 200+ views, with about 20 messages and 50 or so virtual gifts.
The good looking girl had about 500+ views with her “free” account mailbox being full (limit was 50) with 90 something virtual gifts.
I digress but nonetheless, this is interesting don’t you agree?
If your plan is to date online, then expect to be disappointed and expect it to be attention whoring centric. With a catalogue of dick to peruse, most of these online women will try to find their ideal mate.
The same women who’ll be back, still perusing the same catalogue looking for prince charming and fail over and over and over.
My advice? If you’re a geek, balls up and go out, hit places that are “geek” related and try to meet someone in person. Sure, you may get turned down but at least you’re not trying to talk to her while she’s looking at a parade of cocks waving at her for attention.
Regards,
Jay