well, better news. The other areas infected are muscle tissue, not bone, so no more surgeries, just antibiotics from here on out, and she may be there less than a week.
Spoke too soon. Multiple follow up surgeries for the same infected area. Not responding as quickly to antibiotics as expected. My brother had to go back to work after a week, and his wife is recovering from a significant injury so she's in a wheelchair. His mother in law is there, but with all that I wonder if they are able to have someone there with their daughter at the hospital all the time. I know it would kill me - I'd be telling my job, "Hey, I'll just let you know when I'm coming back."
I wish I could do more for them.
In other news, while talking with one of my teenage boy's religious leaders about next year's scout camp (Philmont, it's a Big Deal(TM)), I mentioned our difficulties with our baby. I forgot he was a neurologist at the University of Michigan until after I got off the phone with him, but the symptoms I described worried him enough to discuss them with the pediatric neurologist there, and they contacted us today to ask us if we'd be willing to take the baby in next week (ie, skipping the long waitlist).
I guess the sole consolation is that two days ago a client I completed work for months ago finally got back to me about payment, should be just under $5k, so while I'm expecting very little from our insurance, at least I know we won't have to dip into savings for the initial workup and examination.
I'm not sure whether I want to delve into the
list of possible causes. If we don't pursue it now, though, I know we'll always ask ourselves later on if we should have, particularly if it turns out to be something that does affect him, and is treatable (and many things are).