Perhaps this will be your first test...to find out where something must've gotten lost in translation.Somewhere along the line, someone has fucked up.
--Patrick
Perhaps this will be your first test...to find out where something must've gotten lost in translation.Somewhere along the line, someone has fucked up.
In more mother news... place you bets now. After I told/asked her to not insult me when she wrote to me, she hasn't spoken to me since. Will she last two weeks (Friday)? Three? Who will break first? Will it be before Christmas?Ug. I just, Ug. My mother is driving me batty. Almost every conversation I have with her, there is some dig, some insult, some snide or sarcastic comment towards me (or Eriol, though far far less often). Often little shit, but does it ever pile up over time. And I'm just sick of it. I've called her out on it before, and all that results in is her not talking/communicating with me for a week (or a month), and then everything gets back to normal. I've asked her to stop because of her behaviour's effect on me, she say's I'm too sensitive and it's just a joke. Ignoring it's not working either. So I'm out of coping mechanisms.
Today's fun was when we were talking over e-mail about what folks wanted for Christmas, I asked her, and her response? "A loving family that cares OR a link to Filipino Cupid....." (For reference, I am her only family.)
I just, ug, I'm so done. I see her pretty much every week (since she moved across the country to be near me), and we talk on the phone regularly (often multiple times a day, because I still always pick up when I see her number, stupidly), but I have no idea what I could do that would make her happy (other than get a divorce and move in with her so she has complete control over everything I do.). I'm just never good enough, and it sucks. And I'm never going to be good enough. And her passive-aggressive bullshit is driving me (more) insane. I'm just so tired of it all.
NOOOOO!!!I just had to throw away two Swiss Army pocketknives I've had for 15-20yrs each, because at least 2 things are broken on each one.
It feels like such a betrayal.
--Patrick
They had the same things broken. Not my fault other people around here don't know how to properly use folding scissors.NOOOOO!!!
You can save those. Take them both apart and share blades/features between the two knives.
I didn't mean to make him feel unwelcome or chase him awayWell, since the thread I was posting it in appears to have been depublished while I was reading it, I'm going to post it here, on the possible chance @Gared ever actually returns and reads it
--Patrick
I don't think you were the main cause.I didn't mean to make him feel unwelcome or chase him away
You and me both. I feel like I missed some serious drama.I guess I missed it
I got to read the whole thing, but I didn’t think to capture it even though trying to post my reply told me, “That thread cannot be found.”Wasn't that much drama. I posted something that hit a nerve with him in the Hollywoo thread, he replied with something that stuck a nerve with me. He posted a long post in his Anxiety thread, but I only caught the first few lines in the preview - he'd already deleted it and the whole thread when I clicked through.
Yeah, I read what he posted, and I can definitely see why he had strong opinions in that thread.I got to read the whole thing, but I didn’t think to capture it even though trying to post my reply told me, “That thread cannot be found.”
Trust me when I say that, if true, he has legitimate standing to be as upset as he was.
—Patrick
Well, I'm glad you didn't capture it.I got to read the whole thing, but I didn’t think to capture it even though trying to post my reply told me, “That thread cannot be found.”
Trust me when I say that, if true, he has legitimate standing to be as upset as he was.
—Patrick
I’m extraordinarily good at keeping secrets.Well, I'm glad you didn't capture it.
I don't think we should be trying to keep the things one of our friends here wants to delete.
Indeed? What are the biggest secrets you've been keeping so well?I’m extraordinarily good at keeping secrets.
—Patrick
Nice try.Indeed? What are the biggest secrets you've been keeping so well?
It was inside of you all along!I'll pry that secret recipe of herbs and spices from you yet!
Which reduces the cannibal's work preparing you.It was inside of you all along!
—Patrick
I missed it as well, I just don’t like seeing people leave here that upset.You and me both. I feel like I missed some serious drama.
*preps some Fava Beans and mills around the abattoir/wine cellar for a nice chianti*The secret ingredient is LOVE.
Livers
Organs
Viscera
Eyeballs
One hot dog it is.The secret ingredient is LOVE.
Livers
Organs
Viscera
Eyeballs