Looks like it's going to be Tyler.Bah. House hunting in today's market is a pain.
Houses that were 125,000-ish pre-pandemic are running 310-350K now. I just looked at a house that had 28 offers on it, and it wasn't even that good of a house.
So, my choices at the moment are:
- Wait. Interest rates will go up, and no guarantee that house inventory will improve for a couple of years.
- Downside here is I'm 17 years til retirement. the longer I wait, the closer to that I'll be. I'd prefer to have more equity at retirement than less.
- Fight for an overpriced house
- Downside is the market may turn and I have a house that has 200K more loan on it than it's worth in the future.
- Look in Tyler. House prices here are more reasonable and less fighting over them.
- Downside: It's freaking Tyler. All the things I like to do are at least 2.5 hours away.
Dang, so much for hanging out, eh? If I did move to Grapevine or Lewisville, it'd be just as much a drive for you to get there as it would be for you to come see me in BCSLooks like it's going to be Tyler.
Every house I've looked at in DFW has 10-30 offers on it, many of them all-cash. There's no competing. The last hurrah was one where I had the highest offer, but the house wouldn't appraise at list price. Because I'm getting a VA loan, appraisals are required and it won't appraise at offer price, the choices are the seller lowers sale price, or I pay the difference in cash. And fuck that, I'm not paying cash over the already high closing costs on a VA loan. So the seller went with a lower, all-cash offer that waived appraisals.
On the other hand, I'm making and offer on a Tyler house today that's bigger, costs less, and is in better shape. But...sigh...Tyler.
I'm disappointed too.I was in Longview this weekend visiting my mom. I am a little disappointed that I did not IM Tin that I would be nearby.
Well, I do generally drive out to Denton twice a month to play Irish music. No reason we couldn't meet up one of those evenings.Dang, so much for hanging out, eh? If I did move to Grapevine or Lewisville, it'd be just as much a drive for you to get there as it would be for you to come see me in BCS
Turns out I was super overprepared. This was just, like, a pre-interview with the HR people before they scheduled me for the real interview, which I'll now have next week.I have an interview in 30 mins for a position I am moderately ambivalent about.
But for some reason I am so anxious my chest hurts.
When I think about the job I'm applying for, my thoughts are "ehh, I'm probably better off where I am."
SO WHY DO I FEEL LIKE I'M GOING IN THE SHARK TANK
I can say that I’ll be in Tyler at Studio Movie Grill for Dr Strange on May 7.I'm disappointed too.
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I know Texas is significantly bigger, but I'm slightly amused thinking, "a 2.5 hour drive would be like, driving from one end of my state all the way to the other". And we're talking north-to-south; east to west is shorter. I think I'm spoiled by proximity to the rest of the state, NYC, Phildelphia, etc., because if I have to drive more than 2 hours, I'd better be going on vacation or it ain't happening.oh, I didn't even think that you're only like 2.5 hours away currently @GasBandit
We should totally make some plan to hang out some weekend regardless of if you move or not.
I mean, that's not entirely unreasonable, really. I'm very centrally located - if you drew a triangle between the 3 most major cities of Texas - D/FW, Houston, and San Antonio, where I live is smack in the middle of that triangle, which just so happens to be about 250 miles on a side. From where I am, it's 2 hours to Houston or Austin, and 3 hours to San Antonio or D/FW. So, I can be talked into doing Houston on a day trip, but if I am going to the Metroplex, it generally needs to be an overnight stay, IMO.I know Texas is significantly bigger, but I'm slightly amused thinking, "a 2.5 hour drive would be like, driving from one end of my state all the way to the other". And we're talking north-to-south; east to west is shorter. I think I'm spoiled by proximity to the rest of the state, NYC, Phildelphia, etc., because if I have to drive more than 2 hours, I'd better be going on vacation or it ain't happening.
That really sucks. I wish customer service people could respond in kind. I would have loved, in your shoes, to have been able to say, "Sir, you don't merit talking to anyone important."Had a customer earlier berating me, screaming at me, and calling "Mr Nobody" because I'm no one "important" like a supervisor or manager.
And now I'm about to bike home in the pouring rain.
So that's fun. How's your day been?
Made it home in 18 minutes. (4.86 KM ride)Had a customer earlier berating me, screaming at me, and calling "Mr Nobody" because I'm no one "important" like a supervisor or manager.
And now I'm about to bike home in the pouring rain.
So that's fun. How's your day been?
I mean, you're obviously more important than that customer, or else they wouldn't be calling you up in the first place.Had a customer earlier berating me, screaming at me, and calling "Mr Nobody" because I'm no one "important" like a supervisor or manager.
That's just a few minutes from my house. If you wanna hang out either before or after, let me know!I can say that I’ll be in Tyler at Studio Movie Grill for Dr Strange on May 7.
I used to drive 45 minutes to go to Irish music in Gettysburg PA. People would be shocked. I told them "Here, 45 minutes means crossing 2 state lines. Where I'm from, 45 minutes wouldn't even get you out of the city"I know Texas is significantly bigger, but I'm slightly amused thinking, "a 2.5 hour drive would be like, driving from one end of my state all the way to the other". And we're talking north-to-south; east to west is shorter. I think I'm spoiled by proximity to the rest of the state, NYC, Phildelphia, etc., because if I have to drive more than 2 hours, I'd better be going on vacation or it ain't happening.
45 minutes doesn’t even get me out of the county.I used to drive 45 minutes to go to Irish music in Gettysburg PA. People would be shocked. I told them "Here, 45 minutes means crossing 2 state lines. Where I'm from, 45 minutes wouldn't even get you out of the city"
Well, counties are generally bigger than cities But not always. Houston is home to 9 counties.45 minutes doesn’t even get me out of the county.
I live in Langford, about a 20-25 minute drive on a bad day from Victoria and it's VERY common for people to refuse the drive one way or another because it's "long" and I laugh every time someone says it.I know Texas is significantly bigger, but I'm slightly amused thinking, "a 2.5 hour drive would be like, driving from one end of my state all the way to the other". And we're talking north-to-south; east to west is shorter. I think I'm spoiled by proximity to the rest of the state, NYC, Phildelphia, etc., because if I have to drive more than 2 hours, I'd better be going on vacation or it ain't happening.
I lived there just over 30 years. Once I moved away, I swore I'd never move back. And every time I go back to visit friends or family (or even just to hit the outskirts for the Texas Renaissance Festival), I reaffirm to myself my desire to never live there again.Hate Houston traffic SO much. You'd pretty much have to pay me 7 figures to live there.
We’re driving down to that little dip in the northern border tomorrow.
I've driven there more often than I like. SHSU has a satellite campus there, and a College of Osteopathic Medicine. I did the programming on the AV systems for both (well, COM is still underway).We’re driving down to that little dip in the northern border tomorrow.
Houston inner highway loops overlaying NYC
Maricopa County...I see you didn't do a comparison to Maricopa County.