Whose got a crush on a fellow forumite here?

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ScarJo not returning your calls either?
It's not that kind of thing. It's where I meet someone through a common interest - on online game, messageboard, whatever. We talk, casual at first, then over weeks or months, more personally. We become friends, or at least friendly. After a while, we talk almost entirely outside the format where we met initially. Things start getting personal. I even find myself being trusted, and trusting in return. And it's great. And maybe it means something - maybe it doesn't. And it gets to a point where they say, "it'd be nice if..." and they're right. And yet, at about this point, we both have to acknowledge that it never will, because they're in Oahu or Sao Paolo or Bucharest or wherever. They got their own thing going on, and I've got nothing to offer anyone, so that's where it falls apart.

And it keeps happening, and I'm goddamn sick of it.
 
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Chibibar

a crush? yea sure cause I respect her a person.
more than one? yup.
who? sore wa himitsu desu
 
I'm not trying to manbaw. I'm not even drunk. I'm just very frustrated with myself. The women I feel like I have any kind of connection with around here are either married, or wind up using me. That woman I mentioned in the other thread, she's telling all my coworkers one set of stories and tells me another about her situation, so I know neither are true, and I don't need that shit. I don't care if she feels like she needs more attention - she can get that from the guy she's actually seeing. Then when I happen to connect with someone online, it's great, except they're thousands of miles away and that's not going to change. So, I need to change things so this doesn't keep happening. I'm not even sure why I'm sharing that with you lot, or why I'm being nakedly honest in threads full of sillyness.
 
I'm not trying to manbaw. I'm not even drunk. I'm just very frustrated with myself. The women I feel like I have any kind of connection with around here are either married, or wind up using me. That woman I mentioned in the other thread, she's telling all my coworkers one set of stories and tells me another about her situation, so I know neither are true, and I don't need that shit. I don't care if she feels like she needs more attention - she can get that from the guy she's actually seeing. Then when I happen to connect with someone online, it's great, except they're thousands of miles away and that's not going to change. So, I need to change things so this doesn't keep happening. I'm not even sure why I'm sharing that with you lot, or why I'm being nakedly honest in threads full of sillyness.
I dunno, what keeps you from picking up and moving thousands of miles away? It would seem if you're unhappy in your current area/situation, then if not much prevents it: move? The girl who became my current GF lived 3hrs away from me. While that might not be "thousands of miles" it was still an uncomfortable distance. I made the effort to go see her in person, realized that what I had "where I used to live" wasn't worth keeping and moved. That decision has shaped my life in many ways, but mostly for the better.
 
I'm working on it. I figure if I can get a few thousand saved up I can make a move and afford an apartment and find a job. But the thing is, the problem isn't my location, it's me. Changing where I am isn't going to change /who/ I am.
 

Cajungal

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You're right, LB, it probably won't change your core personality or values, but it might give you a fresh attitude or perspective. :) At any rate, I hope that things improve.
 

Dave

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Move to Omaha. It's got a good job market, low cost of living and we could play Pathfinder.
 

Dave

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No worries, man.

That's my baby!

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And me rocking the pink tie.
 
That purple!avatar makes him look like some kinda re-imagining of the Penguin.

That's a pretty sweet pic though David.
 
ok. fine. this thread has been going long enough. I admit. I have a crush on Crone. But as I said before, ours is a forbidden love that is destine only to bring about the demise of all mortal souls.

... still, the way she slaps people with a truck and pries their teeth with a crowbar just makes me all warm and fuzzy inside.
 
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Andromache

ok. fine. this thread has been going long enough. I admit. I have a crush on Crone. But as I said before, ours is a forbidden love that is destine only to bring about the demise of all mortal souls.

... still, the way she slaps people with a truck and pries their teeth with a crowbar just makes me all warm and fuzzy inside.
psst. It's not my year for that. Shego is the one on base for the fame affection, and violent goddess display.
 
ah fuck. I posted here to last night? How the fuck much did I drink?

*looks at tower of bottles* fuck that, I'm not going to try and count that high....

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for the record, Shego's just a psycopath. Although entertaining, doesn't hold a flame to the old ones.
 
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Andromache

i kinda like the real version of you in that pic for your avatar, but oh well.
 
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