Caution: WORDS
if you literally didn't have time to understand why people are upset, then what are you doing stirring shit up?!
What I'm upset about is that, when I say "I think X is being stupid," the next post is someone (not always you) saying, "Why do you hate X so much?/Why do you want X to be dead?" (not real, just an example), and I am tired, SO tired of having to go back and explain myself because e.g. I chose to say "like" instead of "as" and so people think this means I must "like" a thing, or some other misinterpretation. The thing I don't have the time for is having to go back and clarify something that I thought was as obvious as rain falling downwards but it turns out what people
actually think I said was that puppies make excellent BBQ fodder*. Well settle in because I have tomorrow off so I'm going to make some time, and I'm probably going to get misinterpreted somewhere anyway, but I won't be able to say I didn't try.
As for my stance on intolerance, there is never** going to be a time when I think something gets to be justified with the phrase, "Well it's only ok when WE do it," by which I am describing hypothetical hypocritical statements like, "To save all the brown people, we must kill all the Republicans!" because murder is murder regardless of what color skin is on the dead people. And that is what I think
@Krisken was getting at, a warning that it is easy to go down the anger->hate->suffering path and become what you despise, and all that.
@figmentPez even says, "There is no acceptable middle ground where we 'just kill some of the people,'" and like it or not that also applies in reverse (i.e., we can't just go kill some of
them first before they can go and kill some of the people).
I don't believe "
The Conflict"
has started yet, but only because each of the regions
you mention is busy right now with their own INternal conflicts over getting their affairs in order, purging the faithless/crushing opposition/revving up the propaganda machines. Once all that is done and they've each taken their movement from a smoldering cigarette in a couch cushion to a full-fledged house fire, though? THAT'S when I expect them to start casting envious eyes at their neighbors and looking around for some excuse to locust their way over to some other place they see as infested with inferior beings (or full of exploitable resources) and that's when "Conflict" will grow its capital C. As you said, this isn't about that
one Hollywood-style big bad out there, growing in power and making everyone whisper, rather it's at least half a dozen or so. I can see them growing in strength (though I don't know which is moving the fastest) and I would LOVE to see these movements all die a-borning before they have the chance to ruin countless lives/ecosystems/economies, but my personal influence is limited to the region in which I reside. I can do effectively nothing about Brazil or England, or for that matter California or Iowa, but you can bet I'll be voting here for whomever I think will do the most to avert such behavior across as much of the populace as possible.
The things
you list are
also ones that
"probably fall under 'objectively wrong.'" I thought that went without saying. I don't know how you then go straight to the GOP, though, since Pez only talks about "White Nationalism" and the "Right Wing." I'm with you that it's a strange coincidence how most of these people happen to have an "R" after their names, but my personal belief (opinion!) is that calling for the death of Jews and locking up children are actually NOT core tenets of the Republican Party, rather that the party itself was infiltrated/corrupted/controlled by (WN/RW) people who used its influence to place themselves (and their drinking buddies) in places of power where they could better effect their nefarious plans. The rest of the party? Pressured to toe the purported party line or else exiled from the enclave, much like a Chrysler plant employee would be if he refused to trade in the Ford Festiva he is seen driving to work every day. Still reprehensible behavior on their part, I agree, though I doubt the ones being cowed see it as anything other than extortion, really.
And as for
my advice, yes, I
do support you. You've suffered enough, I don't believe you deserve to suffer more. I hope my advice is useful, and helps you avoid potentially painful pitfalls that might make things worse as a result of your trying to make them better.
My opinions (the opinions that
I hold and which belong to
me) on epithets and perjoratives depend heavily on context. I find "Koch-suckers" to be not a simple gay slur, but a clever construct which carries a lot of inferred meaning packed into it, the same way people might talk about "Massholes" or "Republican'ts."
You may find the term offensive, and that's completely ok. The speaker could even mean some third thing that neither of us considered, but what we can all agree on is that the speaker must have some sort of beef with the person being described in order to have chosen to use it in the first place. Nobody is asking you to sit down and drink tea with these people and treat them as equals, all they are asking is for you to not stoop to their level and/or give them ammunition for their cause (either by being baited into something or just losing your cool and getting told, "See? I told you people like him never listen!")
And for what it's worth, I don't believe the ship has sailed on what I'll call "cop reform," but I agree with you that avoiding
National Fascism is the higher priority right now, and Local Fascism will have to come later. When the number of "honest mistakes" (like ballot "misprints" and the like) gets to be SO LARGE, that really starts to suggest that they are neither honest, nor mistakes.
You already know I'm an intelligent, rational, sane human being (to the peanut gallery: yes, really), moreso than the average, probably even moreso than you give me credit for. I have an almost pathological need to be fair and just, to the point where I
routinely pass up chances to advance my own interests or enrich my personal experience just because I feel it would be wrong to do so at another's expense. And strange as it may seem, I do not enjoy hurting other people's feelings (with the occasional extremely rare exception, but that has to be
earned), so if you (or really if
anyone around here) read something I post and think, "That sounds uncharacteristically hostile and/or insulting to me," then please for God's sake ASK about it before assuming I've gone insane/put you on my shit list.
Or, y'know, there's always PMs. My schedule is garbage, though, so if I take a long time to answer, it's more likely I'm just working 12hrs/day for a week, or else I'm agonizing over the wording in my response to try and minimize the chance that I'll be misconstrued.
--Patrick
*Go ahead,
@Gruebeard , I know you want to.
**Except for those times when I do without realizing it (because I'm human!), but if pointed out, I guarantee I'll say, "You're right, I guess I shouldn't be doing that."