I talked with that girl who was all into me, and she seems to be over it. I've talked with one our mutual friends to confirm. I got a bit of a talk on what I did wrong, which is always uncool, but I understand where the problems came from at least.
Also, the other girl who is/was into me more recently seems to be backing off. We talked about it, and using the knowledge attained from the previous into-me girl, managed to put the kibosh on that.
Which leads me to the real win, which is that hopefully that means things will go okay with the girl I have a date with. We've been chatting a bit on MSN, since she's home in the Caribbean for Christmas. Oh, and her being in the Caribbean for a Christmas wedding means lots of pretty pictures of a pretty girl.
Last time I felt this good about a girl, it only took a day for the universe to turn against me and squash my feeble soul. So stay tuned for the impending rant.