My oldest stepson met his wife on PoF. Just gotta keep on keepin on, and be wary of the fakes
I didn't want to say anything and ruin a moment of possible happiness for you, but someone saying "I love you" so soon, without even meeting or even having a first date? That's a pretty big red flag to me. That's either someone trying too hard, someone REALLY needy, or as you've discovered, likely a fake profile.This was a new one. I got suspicious of “her” and she confessed that it was a fake profile so she could protect her privacy. Told me her “real” name and posted her picture. Then wanted to video chat on Messenger so we could confirm our identities. Very short, but it had me fooled.
Then things got really strange. We had started a second Hangout early on. She had me block the first one.The POF profile suddenly messaged me with “You blocked me?”
Ah, fuck.
I brought it up this morning. She told me she had lost her old phone, and asked me to block it again. The original Hangout started texting back, and she stopped texting on the second one. Then the POF profile texted.
Too damn coincidental to be coincidence.
Checked the Facebook profile attached to the Messenger invite. Given her seemingly deep concern for privacy, it seemed possible the account could have been just for this.
Then I saw multiple check-ins in Nigeria - far from Jersey, where she told me she was from.
Really puts me off the idea of dating altogether, because this is fucking frustrating. I’ve got a lot of love to give, but I can’t find a fucking real person to give it to.
So, I used to do fraud prevention for Western Union, trying my hardest to stop old people from getting scammed, and for me the "brief video call" is what set off the red flag. Typically if someone wants to do video calls they will do them often, doing it once briefly to convince you of their identity and then going back to text is a common tactic by scammers to gain trust, using either pre-recorded video or using an accomplice that acts as face bait before handing off to the scammer.Yeah, I think it’s a catfish.
Yeah, I looked that one up afterward. That was a new element to the scam - at least for me.So, I used to do fraud prevention for Western Union, trying my hardest to stop old people from getting scammed, and for me the "brief video call" is what set off the red flag. Typically if someone wants to do video calls they will do them often, doing it once briefly to convince you of their identity and then going back to text is a common tactic by scammers to gain trust, using either pre-recorded video or using an accomplice that acts as face bait before handing off to the scammer.
Or they could just be this guy.I didn't want to say anything and ruin a moment of possible happiness for you, but someone saying "I love you" so soon, without even meeting or even having a first date? That's a pretty big red flag to me. That's either someone trying too hard, someone REALLY needy, or as you've discovered, likely a fake profile.
Imagine your cells are like a kitchen. In there is a little molecule that makes proteins..that's the chef. Your big tangled up strand of DNA is a cookbook. Whenever you need to make proteins for stuff, another little guy flips through that cookbook and makes a copy of the recipe, and that's what the chef uses. That copy is basically RNA.
So, the chef uses that recipe and makes proteins..and that recipe hangs out, and he uses it over and over. But just like using a printout in your kitchen, it's gonna get messed up and worn out, and eventually you just gotta throw it away and print a new one.
So, the vax is like someone coming into your kitchen with a a new recipe to try (the RNA). The chef uses it to make this new dish (which helps against the virus), but eventually the recipe wears out and it's gone. But by then, your body knows how to fight the virus.
It takes about 2 weeks. So it doesn't alter your DNA, and it doesn't stay in you forever.
I gave up on tinder bc with my new sexual identity I was getting a lot of couples and poly people who just wanted to use a [censored] to get off. But something I liked about it was the way consent was built into the app. Someone has to show the bare minimum amount of interest in you before you can message them and it's so easy to just cut off people who can't stop crossing boundaries. It's pretty great for somebody with social anxietyRe: online dating...
I had zero luck with Tinder, but apparently I'm the bee's knees on Bumble. So many matches and likes. And so many boring women. Geez. One word answers, even to open-ended questions. Good grief. On the other hand, I was a bit surprised, because I did get "lectured" a few times that it was okay to make physical comments and to flirt--this is a dating app after all. I was specifically avoiding physical comments because I hate reading all the "wanna see my dick?" crap on r/tinder and r/bumble. I guess the ideal place is in between (TWSS).
In any case, been dating a woman I met on Bumble for 2 months now, so it worked out well.
"...and Terrik is there." That's 2.The Drew Carey show is literally the only time I have ever heard anything positive said about Cleveland.
Besides the Mexican Food sucks north of here anywaaaaaaaaaayGet some Mexican at Barrio. It's pretty damn good.
This statement comes back with a logic error.- Get some Mexican at Barrio. It's pretty damn good.
I lived in Denton County before moving to VA. Once this divorce is done, and after looking around at potential houses on the web, I imagine I'll be living there again.You know Denton County will be right here waiting for youuuuuu
I've only been to Denton once, and it was by accident (took a wrong exit), and I broke down there and had to get towed all the way back to Waco.I lived in Denton County before moving to VA. Once this divorce is done, and after looking around at potential houses on the web, I imagine I'll be living there again.
For you? Or for Cleveland?I was born in Cleveland!
You can decide for yourself if this is a positive or a negative.