My wife and I are arguing a lot about this. She seems way more aligned with the cops and guard. "The people are shooting fireworks at them, what are they supposed to do?"
It's been tough, because I have to keep explaining to her that...
a) Rioters can be protesters, but not all protesters are rioters. You need to distinguish them or it will turn into EVERYONE versus the police.
b) Cops have instigated violence just as much as protesters and rioters, they are scared and likely to lash out just as much.
c) Even so, cops need to be held to a higher standard. "I ain't willing to let my neighbor I don't know babysit my kids, how can I trust a cop I never met to protect them if I can't accept they will do things to a higher standard then my neighbor? If I have to hold them to the same standards then I won't trust them to protect my children."
I am trying to be calm and rational with her, but I feel like all this is hitting her hard, because she gets really angry about it and seems to refuse accounts outside of the police because "Everyone has an agenda." to which I have to reply, "Yes, even the police." I ended the conversation when she said she was going to "Teach me something" to which I replied, "I am you're husband and a cognitive adult, if you wish to discuss this so we both may learn something, that's great, but I will not accept you "teaching" me something for which you have no professional knowledge or mastery. You only know as much as I do on this, maybe a bit more, but also possibly less. So don't give me that." She just looked at me grunted and went to get ready for work.
Might be sleeping on the sofa tonight, but she needed the shutdown this once.