Anonymous random halforumite sex poll

Would you sign up for the Halforums Snu-Snu matching service (read the post)?

  • I am male, and I would sign up.

    Votes: 21 42.9%
  • I am male, and I would not sign up.

    Votes: 21 42.9%
  • I am female, and I would sign up.

    Votes: 4 8.2%
  • I am female, and I would not sign up.

    Votes: 3 6.1%

  • Total voters
    49
Guys, don't be jealous, we can hang out too. Just not in a random sex lottery kind of way.
Can I come too? I mean, I've calmed down a lot since the 1990s. I kind of like talking with friends, having a drink and some nice snacks, watching movies, playing games and so on. I make a really good buffalo chicken dip...
 
I was referring more to the couple of guys who expressed the opinion that they wouldn't sign up if shego did, out of fear. I would assume that if she did sign up, it would be because she wanted to swing that way.
Not out of fear. She reminds me someone I once knew. I don't want to risk putting up with that again.
 
But when I'm getting it on the regular, there have been times I've turned down sex simply for not being in the mood. In my experience, females don't have much experience with sexual rejection, and take it super personally. In the past (though not with my current wife), this has led to some pretty big fights. At which point, I feel compelled to remind my partner that if I acted that way when they weren't in the mood, I'd be considered a misogynistic asshole at best, and potential rapist at worst for trying to browbeat a woman into having sex with me when she didn't want to.
 
Honestly this thread made me realize that of all the things I miss about my last relationship, sex isn't one of them. Like it's not that I didn't enjoy it, or that I wouldn't do it again. I just haven't really been bothered by the lack of it.
 
Also, I wonder if the results would change much if Shego were still an active member. People might not want to gamble as much if there's the chance you'll draw the mantis/widow, right?

--Patrick
I'd be more likely to sign up if I might be paired with Shego.
 
I dunno, it's been long enough at this point since my last relationship and doin' it that, while sure I'm in the mood from time to time, I just don't really think much about it in the long run.
 
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