The guy realized I was just killing myself and was waiting for me at the spawn area. He immediately started slashing me apart and I had to block, roll, and try to run off the cliff far past him before his bleeding effect killed me.Realized I'd fucked up my stats in Demon's Souls but unlike Dark Souls, you have a way of undoing this--lose your levels.
So now I'm at 4-2, invading the same guy again and again, and then throwing myself off the cliff. If I do this 19 times, I'll lose 19 levels and bring my Dex back down to a reasonable point (along with my Endurance ) so I can then level up 16 times AGAIN and redistribute those stats to better places, because I apparently hate myself.
Fortunately there's some easy excellent grinding to be done at 4-2, but I feel like a chump even doing all this in the first place. I'm going to be a lower level than when I started earlier today.
These games are so ridiculous.